Hi! I need some help as I
don't quite know what to do. My boyfriend feels that he
is an abductee and was abducted when he was quite young
(younger than 12 years old). He started getting a feeling
that he had been abducted when he was 12 (not sure how!!)
and has had this feeling since then.
I totally believe him but do not how to help him
come to terms with this as he told me this on our second
date. He was shocked and said that he was sorry for
dropping this on me but I said that if I could help then
I would. He has asked me to read up on it, but not
knowing where to start, I am a bit stuck and I had a
feeling there would be something on the net that might
help me in this matter. Please help as I do not know
where to turn.
First of all, your new
boyfriend has certainly dropped a heavy load on your
shoulders. It is a lot to handle for a new relationship.
You may even find yourself wanting to pull away from your
new boyfriend because of it. If you want to pull out of
the relationship, let him know in a caring way that you
are concerned for him but find yourself unable to be his
If you want to
continue the friendship and are curious about the
abduction experience, then read the topics here at the
web site. They will give you an understanding of what
your boyfriend may have experienced. But if you are both
young, then probing this subject can be disturbing and is
not recommended. If you or your boyfriend are still in
school, it is best not to overwhelm yourselves with this
subject matter. Best thing to do is to keep school,
family, and friends as the most important part of your
life. The abduction scenario can be explored later.